Friends, when our life passes through the
phase of richness and poverty, it teaches
us a lot, explains a lot. Sometimes we feel
very bad and sometimes we feel very
good. And in all these things we also feel
a lot of change in ourselves.
Related to this, let me tell you some things
about myself. When I was a child and the
condition of my house was very bad, my
father did not get salary on time,
sometimes our family used to crave for
food. At that time we learned to adjust in
little things in life, also learned to be
happy in little things. Sometimes his
health was very bad, still he did not
bother anyone much.
At that time parents used to live in debt.
There was always something missing. Just
used to pray to God for small happiness.
When he used to get those small
happiness, he used to become very happy.
At that time, when there used to be an
injury somewhere in the body, or a cut
somewhere, we did not talk to our parents
about it. We would have fixed that injury
on our own or it would have been fixed
just like that.
In other words, the condition of poverty
makes even a child a sensible person.
Teaches him to do everything. Teaches
him to take responsibilities. Teaches him
to understand the circumstances of
others.
Neither my childhood was spent in
affluence nor was it spent in such a way
that it can be said that every hobby was
fulfilled in my childhood, my childhood
was spent in poverty. I have found myself
longing for everything. Have seen my
parents struggle for everything. Yes, I
have definitely been around those people
and have definitely seen those people
whose every hobby has been fulfilled in
their childhood. They were rich since
childhood. What I have seen in the things
that were in him, it is the exact opposite
of this.
The way poverty makes a child a sensible
person from childhood, in the same way
richness does not allow a child to become
a big person even after growing up, rather
childishness, habit of throwing tantrums,
stubbornness are all these things in him.
They don't have to work hard for
anything.
Rich people neither have the ability to
tolerate sorrow nor do they have the
habit of tolerating lack of anything. Even
if his body gets scratched, he cannot
tolerate it. They are also in a hurry to do
everything in their life. Because he never
has to yearn for anything.
Today there is no shortage of anything in
my life, I have as much as I want. I don't
even have a desire for more than this. I
am in a normal family and every need of
my life is fulfilled. But I never forget those
days, when I saw my poverty, saw myself
yearning. If one faces both poverty and
richness in life, then a person
understands and learns a lot. But when a
person gets used to being rich since
childhood, that person forgets to work
hard and tolerate.
I will tell you some more true things
related to this in another
article..........Thank you 😊
दोस्तों जब हमारी जिंदगी अमीरी और गरीबी के दौर से
गुजरती है तो हमें बहुत कुछ सिखाती है, बहुत कुछ
समझाती है। हमें कभी-कभी बहुत कुछ बुरा लगता है तो
कभी-कभार बहुत कुछ अच्छा भी लगता है। और इन सब
चीजों में हम भी अपने आप में बहुत बदलाव महसूस करते
हैं।
इसी से जुड़ी मैं आपको अपने बारे में कुछ बातें बताती हूं।
जब मैं बच्ची थी और मेरे घर की हालत बहुत खराब थे, मेरे
पापा को समय पर सैलरी नहीं मिलती थी, कभी-कभी
हमारा परिवार खाने के लिए भी तरस जाता था। उस समय
हमने जीवन में थोड़ी चीजों में एडजस्ट करना सीखा, थोड़ी
सी चीजों में खुश होना भी सीख लिया। कभी कभी बहुत
ज्यादा तबीयत खराब होती थी, फिर भी किसी को ज्यादा
परेशान नहीं करते थे।
उस समय मम्मी-पापा कर्ज में डूबे रहते थे। हमेंशा कुछ ना
कुछ कमी रहा ही करती थी। बस छोटी-छोटी खुशियों के
लिए भगवान से प्रार्थना करते थे। जब वह छोटी खुशियां
मिलती थी तो बहुत खुश हो जाया करते थे।
उस समय जब शरीर में कहीं चोट लग जाती थी, या कही
कट फट जाता था तो उसके बारे में हम मम्मी पापा से नहीं
बोला करते थे। वो चोट हम अपने आप ही ठीक कर लेते या
ऐसे ही ठीक हो जाता था।
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